As we all continue to adjust to the relative isolation, parents may be wondering how they can replicate a sense of community and structure in the lives of their children.
Community Inside and Outside the Home
All parents can create a sense of community within the home by establishing new rituals to which their children can feel connected, like board game or movie nights, daily exercise routines, nature walks or even shared family chore times.
“All parents can create a sense of community within the home by establishing new rituals to which their children can feel connected, like board game or movie nights, daily exercise routines, nature walks or even shared family chore times," said Mrs. Howard. "Notions of friendship and community change over time as children develop. Very young children may define a friend as the person who is playing next to them in the sandbox – their sense of community often consists of the people with whom they share physical space.
"Older children begin to identify friends and their community as the people with whom they share interests, such as basketball or dance. Late elementary and middle school children begin to define friends and their community as the people who they believe share the same values – qualities that matter to them, such as loyalty, honesty or kindness.”
Parents may want to reach out to the people and relationships that make your child feel known as an individual.
Your child could participate in a virtual playdate in which friends use blocks to build different structures for a town, verbally sharing what they’ve assembled as they play. Or they could all present a stuffed animal and tell its story as part of creating a “zoo.”
As students develop more individualized interests, they may be able to share these with friends in a virtual visit. They could form a poetry club or painting group, learn a new skill together like knitting or schedule a hula hoop contest. They may also enjoy a service project coordinated by an adult in which, for example, they produce signs with caring messages for a nursing home lawn display.
Older children can also enjoy virtual visits with friends in which they share their interests like favorite music groups or showcase a hobby. They can also benefit from feeling valued in an expanded community, outside of their immediate peer group. Service-oriented projects, such as writing thank you notes to first responders or dropping off care packages for healthcare workers, can provide a sense of connection to a broader community.
Importance of Disconnecting
Finally, parents need not be concerned if they cannot constantly facilitate this sense of community for their child. Cultivating a tolerance for being alone is equally important. And sometimes getting away from the sensory overload of screen time and the exhaustion of seeing oneself on screen all day can be a welcome relief.
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